How it works
Align first, in four intentional steps
AlignHeart maps what matters most across seventeen relationship pillars, then pairs numeric clarity with AI coaching so you can grow with intention.
The AlignHeart process
Assess
Science-backed questions across seventeen pillars.
Compare
See overlap, gaps, and growth opportunities.
Reveal
Dual-heart chemistry mapped with numeric clarity.
Grow
Free scripted guide from your scores; paid chat goes deeper.
The seventeen pillars
Each pillar maps to a region of the dual-heart visual — always paired with scores and labels for accessibility.
Values
Core beliefs, life priorities, and non-negotiables.
Family
Family planning, roles, and extended-family expectations.
Readiness
Timing, emotional availability, and relationship intent.
Communication
Conflict style, repair habits, and emotional expression.
Finance
Money values, spending habits, and long-term planning.
Lifestyle
Daily rhythms, social energy, and health habits.
Reciprocity
Effort balance, follow-through, and the less visible work.
Capacity
Schedule bandwidth, caregiving load, and location flexibility.
Autonomy
Decision-making balance, independence, and personal space.
Pace
Contact frequency, exclusivity timing, and how fast bigger steps should move.
Emotional Availability
Openness to closeness and readiness to be known.
Relationship History
Patterns from past relationships and healing work done.
Partner Selection
The traits and dynamics you're drawn to, and whether they've served you.
Intimacy
Pace and boundaries around physical and sexual closeness.
Health
Physical and mental health context and accommodations.
Safety & Boundaries
Consent practices and how safety gets discussed early on.
Relationship Maintenance
How you handle drift, repair, and stay intentional over time.
Common questions
- How long does the AlignHeart assessment take?
- Most people finish the seventeen-pillar assessment in about 16 minutes. You can close the window and pick up later — your draft is saved in this browser. Sign in to persist it to your account.
- What are the seventeen relationship pillars?
- Values, family, readiness, communication, finance, lifestyle, reciprocity, capacity, autonomy, pace, emotional availability, relationship history, partner-selection patterns, intimacy, health, safety and boundaries, and relationship maintenance. Each pillar maps to a region of the compatibility visual so alignment is legible at a glance.
- Do I need a match to use coaching?
- No. Energy Guides and micro-actions work from your own pillar scores first. Partner compatibility layers on after you connect with someone.
Ready to see your alignment?
Take the assessment or explore a sample compatibility score first.