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AlignHeart
Align first. Love what follows.

Relationship intelligence + AI coaching

Align first. Love what follows.

One assessment, seventeen pillars, and a painted picture of who you are, before you meet anyone.

Not ready? What kind of mind do you have? Six questions.

Acrylic heart in teal, violet and magenta impasto, painted on a dark canvas

The app

This is what you'll use

Take the assessment, meet your Energy Guide, see how you match. It all runs in your browser today — no download yet, an iOS app is on the way.

  • AlignHeart screen — meeting your Energy Guide

    Meet your Energy Guide

Two acrylic figures reaching toward each other across a painted heart, one half rose, one half teal

Dating, aligned

Find your connection

Meet people who did the same work you did: the assessment, the painting, the honest answers. Matches start from what you both value, not from a swipe.

Matching opens in San Diego first
A single acrylic figure, seated and centred, painted in soft strokes on a cream ground

See yourself

We don’t know you yet.

The assessment starts with you alone: seventeen pillars, answered in your own words, before a single match.

Not ready for the full thing?What kind of mind do you have?Six questions.

Life Painting

A painting of who you are

Your answers become a portrait: a visual representation of who you are, painted in your own colours. No photos, no filters. Walk the gallery and picture yours on the wall.

A lit gallery wall with a wide canvas above a wooden bench, a smaller canvas on each side
Earthy acrylic figure with visible cracks, a crimson wound-mark, and one thread of gold already running through — wounded but upright

1 / 12: Earthy acrylic figure with visible cracks, a crimson wound-mark, and one thread of gold already running through — wounded but upright

Every version of you belongs on the wall.

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Energy Guides

Choose how your coach talks to you

Same honesty, three temperatures. Switch any time.

  • Truth Energy Guide, an acrylic figure

    Truth

    Honest reflection without harshness — naming misalignment early so chemistry can rebuild on real data.

  • Balanced Energy Guide, an acrylic figure

    Balanced

    Warm neutrality for couples calibrating pace — equal weight to both energies in the splatter silhouette.

  • Gentle Energy Guide, an acrylic figure

    Gentle

    Pastel particle aura for tender moments — encouragement when readiness is fragile but intent is real.

Seventeen pillars

Where alignment becomes visible

Compatibility is measured on all seventeen before anyone is matched, not after.

  1. 01Values
  2. 02Family & Kids
  3. 03Readiness & Timing
  4. 04Communication
  5. 05Finance & Planning
  6. 06Lifestyle & Habits
  7. 07Reciprocity & Effort
  8. 08Capacity & Logistics
  9. 09Roles & Autonomy
  10. 10Pace & Escalation
  11. 11Emotional Availability
  12. 12Relationship History & Healing
  13. 13Partner-Selection Patterns
  14. 14Intimacy Pace & Boundaries
  15. 15Health & Accommodations
  16. 16Safety & Boundaries
  17. 17Relationship Maintenance & Repair
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Love what follows

Before dating became a swipe, it was an introduction.

Your grandparents didn’t swipe. Someone who knew them deeply looked at two people and said: you two. That kind of introduction got harder to find as community got smaller and more scattered, and matching got handed to machines that know your photos and nothing else. AlignHeart brings the intention back: it learns your values, readiness, and the life you want to build, then makes an introduction, not just a match.

Because meaningful love starts with being understood.

  • Then

    Someone who knew you made the match.

  • Why it worked

    Community knew your character, not just your photos.

  • Now

    AlignHeart learns you the way community used to.

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The proof, honestly

No member stories yet — here’s what’s real right now

AlignHeart is pre-launch, so we won’t manufacture reviews or match stats. What you can verify today is the coaching method itself — the same three paths run the app and the podcast.

  • Momentum

    wants your next move

  • Mastery

    wants the pattern named

  • Authority

    wants the identity shift

Hear the method in the open on Aligned Chemistry, the podcast where these three coaches sit at the table.

Listen to the podcast

Member stories

Open at launch. We’d rather show you nothing than show you something fake.

From the journal

Fresh thinking on alignment and connection

Take your next step

Start with the assessment — reveal your axis report, explore a coach-ranked compatibility preview, and grow with AI coaching. Paid paths from $29/mo when billing ships — see pricing.

Launching first in San Diego — growing city by city.

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Verification coming soon · Intentional connections · AI coaching · Real relationships